life is not perfect but i'm looking a man knows how to love because for me that love makes perfect .... i will not judge looks ....i will not judge what he has but who he was... not changing him but understand him... life is so short make the most of it spend time together live what we have together in a simple way .... where are you i long for you. my 2 kids live me . because my eldest work already. my second daughter almost finish college she will not live with me then.