Oh wow. Well I'm just about to hit 50 and I have lived enough life to understand what the world is really like. I am a single father raising two children ages 13 and 11. I work 6 days a week and have some very simple goals. Finish the mission so that when I reach the end of the road the people I care most about are taken care off and simply have a chance. The answer to the question is very simple for anyone looking to join me in life. Be someone that I can trust. Understand that no man is prince charming from a Disney movie. I'm looking for an attractive dedicated woman that has goals and is willing to relocate. I certainly understand that you need help and to a certain point, I am willing to do so. If you show me you are dedicated to the ultimate goal. I have my own home, I love to garden and try to grow my own. My idea of a good time is when I can BBQ and cook something I have planted and produced. My ideal woman can answer the following questions. What is your ultimate goal in life. Is tradition more important than family. Define what loyalty means to you. I have a big heart and I am faithful, if you give me you best than you deserve my best. This is a long time goal, you must be in for the long haul. Age doesn't matter to me, it's your heart and sprit. I will answer any questions you have, so feel free to ask me anything but be prepared to be open and honest with me.