I am a friendly geek who has traveled the world. I'm social and well liked and full of stories. Ask me about smuggling booze into Afghanistan to run a bar or sailing my boat around the ocean for a year. My hobbies include assisting in production of an immersive art festival, swimming and recently shibari.
My vibe is safe and comfortable. Even if I have you all tied up in ropes you will be very comfortable with the fact you are uncomfortable. I'm dominant but I really enjoy making others happy. So if you choose to spend time with me you will be very well taken care of.
The ladies like me so I often get asked why I'm on here. I think it's an interesting dynamic and a place to meet interesting people. I love to try new things and SA has many opportunities for that.
I'm definitely Alpha and have no problem taking the lead and making decisions. I also really enjoy taking care of everyone around me. My friend calls it a "usefulness kink".